This post is sponsored by Saks Fifth Avenue and ShopStyle

My new fave designer bag 😍  love the linen, gold chain, pretty tan leather on this YSL – every detail is amaaazing!

Nothing like pretty whites, linens, and sheer details for summer – great designer bag options if you’re on the hunt!

LINEN YSL BAG | PEBBLE STACKED NUDE SANDAL (ON SALE 30% OFF; ALSO GOT THESE – LOVE THE ORANGE!) | TAN JOGGERS | MUSCLE TANK

You guys know how much I love handbags. I feel like bags and shoes get the most wear and make the biggest statement. There was a time when I was investing in and building up my designer bag collection, getting a few new designer bags a year. But then I went through a phase I wasn’t really inspired or in love with a lot of the new bags until this year! There have been so many cute bags out this year. The second I saw this one I fell in love, the linen 🤩 it’s even more beautiful in person. Saks has had the best selections this year. I also grabbed this cute denim shoulder bag – definitely a more budget-friendly price point and I love the 90s shoulder bag silhouette!

I’ve been so drawn to color this year, I wanted to share some brands I’m loving right now. These are all major statement-making brands, especially their summer collection, that would be a worthy focal point in any closet. Here are some of my favorites!

FARM RIO – These tropical and floral prints are the things dreams are made of – you can help but smile in their pieces. Love all the silhouettes too – some full sleeve, long sleeve, short sleeve, one shoulder, off the shoulder, cross back – a little bit of everything! These dresses are a must for any beach getaways you have planned.

SIGNIFICANT OTHER – Think feminine, flattering dresses and matching sets in the best prints and colors! I first tried this brand a few months ago when I ordered this top and loved it even more in person.

PATBO – This collection speaks for itself. Every single piece feels like it belongs on the Italian Coast or on a yacht on Lake Como. Honestly, I can’t even put it into words. Stunning, thoughtful cut-outs, statement cropped tops and swimwear, gorgeous prints and colors – truly one of the most amazing designers for summer!

STAUD – This brand feels a little more youthful and fun – from 90s shoulders bags to these pretty sandals to fresh color blocking. Also, most of their pieces are a pretty good price point for such high quality. Also ordered this cute matching track set – love the texture variation for each leg!

ACLER – These dresses will make anyone feel like $1m and every detail is perfection. Each silhouette feels so fresh and current – great options for wedding guest dresses too!

AGUA BY AGUA BENDITA: Another brand with gorgeous, art-like prints but their color palettes feel a little simpler (at least in comparison to Farm Rio). Also love their swimwear!

CULT GAIA: This has been one of my go-tos for summer style – from their gorgeous swimsuits to statement shoes to bags that you’ll want to wear all summer. It definitely leans more towards neutrals, but this summer has some new colorful finds. (Also obsessed with their dresses this season!)

ALICE & OLIVIA: I’ve been wearing this brand for years, but their summer collection is better than ever so I had to share. Their neons are breathtaking and dresses are stunning (also love this one). Great designer for everything from dresses to workwear to activewear (their biker shorts are 😍😍).

ZIMMERMANN: Another tried and true designer but no list of statement-making brands would be complete without Zimmermann. It’s always the first designer I search when I’m looking for a statement dress for easter or a new show-stopping swimsuit. Each piece is designed with the most intricate details, beautiful patterns and prints, and always such feminine silhouettes. Also, always an investment but one that will pay off.

1. COLORBLOCKED DRESS
2. SHEER SLEEVED CROP TOP
3. ORANGE CUT-OUT BODYSUIT
4. NEON YELLOW TROUSERS
5. STRIPED RAINBOW BUTTON UP
6. YELLOW SANDALS
7. PINK LIP GLOW
8. WHITE SCALLOPED TOP AND SKIRT
9. GOLD RUFFLED ONE PIECE
10. TROPICAL MINI DRESS
11. FLORAL CUT-OUT MAXI DRESS
12. BLUE BIRD PRINT DRESS
13. WHITE SHOULDER TOTE
14. BLUE SANDALS
15. TROPICAL PRINT SWIMSUIT
16. JO MALONE NASHI BLOSSOM PERFUME

Linking some more pretty statement summer pieces from Saks below!

XX, Christine

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The 4th of July is one of my favorite holidays – it is the epitome of summer, relaxing nights with the family, and good memories. I’ve always loved picking out festive looks for the whole family – if you guys have followed for a while you probably even remember some of the ILY sweatshirts we would design just for the 4th. 🙂 So I love carrying on the tradition and getting dressed up in my reds, whites, and blues for 4th of July.  Wanted to share some of my finds so far if you guys are planning on dressing up too!

DETAILS: 1. BLUE SWIM TOP | 2. RED LOVE BRACELET (UNDER $50) | 3. BLUE AND WHITE SHORTS | 4. STAR EARRINGS (UNDER $100)| 5. FLOWER STUD EARRINGS (UNDER $100) | 6. STAR SANDALS  | 7. BLUE DRESS | 8. VEJA SHOES | 9. RED BANDANA SLIDES (UNDER $50) | 10. ISABEL MARANT TOTE | 11. BLUE COWBOY BOOTS | 12. RED BANDANA TOTE | 13. WHITE HAND BAG (UNDER $100) | 14. OVERSIZED DENIM JACKET  | 15. WHITE CROCHET CROP TOP (UNDER $100) | 16. RED & WHITE PRINT DRESS | 17. WHITE ONE-PIECE (UNDER $100) | 18. RED & BLUE TOTE BAG | 19. DENIM BLUE JEWEL SLIDES (UNDER $100) | 20. TANK CROP TOP | 21. STAR HAND BAG | 22. DENIM SHORTS | 23. WHITE BLOUSE CROP TOP (UNDER $100) | 24. PLAID SUNGLASSES

DETAILS: BLUE FREE PEOPLE DRESS (WEARING XS) | WOVEN BAG

Obsessed with this dress! I love the flowy high low shape and mixed stripe with chambray – not to mention it’s the perfect color for the 4th and very 90’s! It’s a loose fit  so I ordered it in an XS -I would say size down if you’re in between sizes. I paired it with this festive red and blue tote bag – love the color combo but the woven detail is so good to bring in some texture and interest to your outfits yearround.

DETAILS: WHITE CROP TOP (ONE SIZE TOP-UNDER $100) | DENIM SHORTS (WEARING SIZE 25) | ISABEL MARANT TOTE BAG (UNDER $150) | INITIAL NECKLACE (UNDER $15)

How good is this crochet crop top! It’s under $100 and a one size fits all top. Such a cute option for the 4th and also doubles as a swim coverup top. I paired it with this oversized Isabel Marant tote bag with the red logo for a festive touch. It’s a great size for a summer picnic or watching fireworks at the beach. These denim shorts are a great fit and i’m wearing the 25 here. I rolled the bottom of them up but you can also wear them down for more coverage.

DETAILS: WHITE BLOUSE CROP TOP (WEARING XS- UNDER $100) | DENIM JEANS (UNDER $60-WEARING SIZE 25)

THIS TOP!!!! Honestly this brand is just so good. Love the crop with the string ties. It’s more of a sophisticated, dressed up option for your 4th festivities. It’s also under $100 which is a steal. I paired it with these oversized denim jeans (under $60).  Think blue kitten heel and red lip to keep it dressed up but still festive.

DETAILS: RED EMBROIDERED DRESS (WEARING SIZE SMALL)

I love the fit of this red embroidered dress, the drawstring waist is super flattering and the blue detail makes it perfect for the 4th! This exact version has only a couple sizes left so I linked the other color here it’s super cute and fourth of Julyish too!

DETAILS: ONE (UNDER $50) | TWO (UNDER $30) | THREE | FOUR (UNDER $30) | FIVE (UNDER $70) | SIX (UNDER $30)

Ordered this red shirt for Cody to wear on the 4th, he was super impressed with how soft the material is and loves the red and blue colors. Linked some similar options for the holiday that fit his style as well here and here. All of these shirt options are budget-friendly and under $50! These blue swim trunks are great if you’ll be swimming or by the beach for the holiday, they are under $70!  I included these navy blue Vejas tennis shoes that are under $200 so the whole family could coordinate with matching shoes 🙂

DETAILS: ONE (UNDER $30) | TWO (UNDER $100) | THREE (UNDER $20) | FOUR (UNDER $50) | FIVE (UNDER $20) | SIX

These kid’s 4th of July pieces are the cutest! I ordered this white Nike shirt for both our boys and a Nike shirt & shorts set for Ollie. These mini tennis shoes are for Ollie to match mine and they are under $100. I included these Givenchy swim trunks which are definitely a splurge but I think they are adorable.

What are your plans for the 4th? Do you guys love dressing up as much as I do?  ⭐️

xx, Christine

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One of my favorite things to watch on TikTok is beauty/makeup videos. I have found SO many home runs from there. With so many new-to-me beauty products tempting me on Tiktok, I end up finding some I love and some that are just so-so for me so I wanted to see how some of these viral high-end, designer beauty products measure up. Sharing a full review video first and the going into a little more detail below.

CHARLOTTE TILBURY LOOK OF LOVE PALETTE – ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

4.5/5 Charlotte Tilbury’s palettes are everything! I just got this one in ‘Glowing Beauty’ and love all the colors together. It definitely deserves all the buzz it gets. PRO: this is the perfect palette for traveling. It has 3 eye colors, 3 face colors, and a cheek color plus you can mix, match, and blend making it super easy to pack your makeup bag for any upcoming trips. For every day makeup looks at home I’ll throw in my go to bronzer or blush outside the palette. But this has the prettiest shades to mix and match for a beautiful neutral beauty look. I docked it a .5 of a point because of what I said about mixing with other products. Its a 5/5 for traveling but a 4.5/5 for at home. I’m wearing this palette in the above pic/video. Blush, shadow and bronzer.

LANCOME LASH PRIMER – ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

6/5 stars. Obsessed! If you don’t use a lash primer, you don’t know what you’re missing. And if you do use one but it’s not Lancôme, you still don’t know what you’re missing. 😂 I have tried multiple lash primers across different brands and nothing measures up to it. Using a primer first will help you get the most out of your favorite mascara – you can also use it as a conditioning treatment at night. Can’t recommend enough!

CHANEL HYDRA GLOW CONCENTRATE

Nothing feels like more of a luxury than adding Chanel to your beauty routine. After reading some amazing reviews about this, I couldn’t wait to give it a try. It’s an intensive, one month treatment that completely resurfaces your skin for the prettiest glow. You only use it for one month which I thought was super interesting! It specifically says on the bottle to wait months before using again. Loving results so far, but haven’t done my full month so I’ll share more after I hit the 1 month mark!

FLAWLESS FILTER PRIMER & HIGHLIGHTER (SHADE: 3 LIGHT/MEDIUM)

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

5/5 This one lives up to its name – it’s a primer/highlighter with smoothing airbrush technology for a soft blurring effect. You can use it right after your moisturizer as a primer, mixed with your foundation, or as a highlighter. I can never get enough of highlighter and love the effect of this one! Definitely a must-try if you haven’t yet!

NUFACE TRINITY – ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

4/5 Yes it works and you can see real results it you’re diligent about using it. For me personally, I’m not good about being consistent using it. I have friends who are really consistent and see great results, so this one really comes down to how dedicated you are. It has a heavy price tag, so if you can stick with it and incorporate it into your daily regimen, it’s worth every penny – but it can’t do the work without you. (also shown in this post.)

DIOR BLUSH -⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

5/5 I’m not wearing it in this video since I went with the coordinating blush, but this color is stunning for a rosy cheek, flushed beauty look (one of the best no-makeup beauty products!) Got this at Nordstrom last week and it’s already sold out. I love it – keeps flying off the shelves so I would add an alert and checkout as soon as you can land it in your cart!

Have you guys tried any of these cult-favorites? Let me know how you would rate them! Linking to a few more of my favorites below.

XX, Christine

*In collaboration with Nordstrom.

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Today kicks off the Amazon Prime Day Sale aka their biggest sale of the year! There are some great markdowns on pieces I already own and some new pieces I picked out from the sale so I’m sharing all my top selects, from swim to loungewear to amazing denim. These deals only last June 21st and 22nd – and some of the best sales are only live for a few hours! (I’ll be posting on stories to make sure to follow along so you don’t miss them :).

BLACK CROPPED TANK (ON SALE UNDER $20 – WEARING SIZE M)

BLACK BIKER SHORTS (ON SALE UNDER $20 – WEARING SIZE S)

GREEN SHOULDER BAG (ON SALE UNDER $30)

WHITE PLATFORM VANS 

INITIAL NECKLACE (ON SALE UNDER $10!)

EARRINGS (ON SALE UNDER $10)

These biker shorts are 🤩🤩 and under $20! Great summer staple either with oversized tees or a cropped tank. This cropped tank is a closet must-have – great layering piece and under $20!

BLACK CROPPED TANK (ON SALE UNDER $20 – WEARING SIZE M)

DENIM CUT-OFF SHORTS (ON SALE UNDER $30 – WEARING SIZE 26)

GREEN SHOULDER BAG (ON SALE UNDER $30)

BLACK SANDALS (ON SALE UNDER $60)

INITIAL NECKLACE (ON SALE UNDER $10!)

EARRINGS (ON SALE UNDER $10)

Cannot believe these shorts are under $30! Such a steal and a great summer staple. I have these in multiple washes – sizes are going quick so make sure to snag ASAP if you can get your hands on your size! This shoulder bag is also on flash sale through 4:10pm MST today!!

BLACK CROPPED TANK (ON SALE UNDER $20 – WEARING SIZE M)

BLACK GYM SHORTS (ON SALE UNDER $18 – WEARING SIZE S)

BLACK SANDALS (ON SALE UNDER $60)

INITIAL NECKLACE (ON SALE UNDER $10!)

EARRINGS (ON SALE UNDER $10)

I have been living in these shorts this past weekend and they were an instant fave! They are high-waisted and have zip pockets and are so comfortable. Love the length on these too! Will be buying multiple colors!!

BLACK CROPPED TANK (ON SALE UNDER $20 – WEARING SIZE M)

TAN SWEAT SHORTS (ON SALE UNDER $20 – WEARING SIZE XS)

BLACK SANDALS (ON SALE UNDER $60)

EARRINGS (ON SALE UNDER $10)

I guess I’m seeing a trend here – haha. I’m stocking up on shorts this Prime Day! Love the length on these sweat shorts. Got them in this pretty tie-dye print too. Great loungewear piece!

BLACK SWIMSUIT (ON SALE UNDER $20 – WEARING SIZE M)

PATTERNED SCARF (UNDER $10)

This black swimsuit is one of my fave one pieces – so flattering and adjustable to fit your body type! Also on sale under $20 right now.

JEWELED ACRYLIC RINGS SET (ON SALE UNDER $10)

FRUIT ACRYLIC RINGS SET (ON SALE UNDER $15)

Can’t get enough of these acrylic rings! I’ve bought multiple sets and love to mix and match them.

*FLASH SALE*

DETAILS: CREAM 90’S SHOULDER BAG (ON SALE FROM 6.21 10:10am to 4:10pm MST) | GREEN 90’S SHOULDER BAG (ON SALE FROM 6.21 10:10am to 4:10pm MST)

This 90s shoulder bag comes in 8 colors – I have it in the cream and this cute green color. This bag is so perfect for summer and you’ll be seeing this style everywhere…it’s a must-have! It’s going to be on sale today (the 21st) between 10:10am and 4:10pm MST – definitely get ready to snag one!

INITIAL NECKLACE (ON SALE UNDER $10!)

Get lots of questions on this necklace every time I post it! It’s on sale under $10 right now! Makes a great gift too.

DETAILS: PINK ONE-PIECE (ON SALE FOR $27 – WEARING SIZE MEDIUM)

I absolutely love this bright pink one-piece – it’s still an amazing deal full price but even better today on sale on Prime Day! It’s super flattering and great quality, comes in 26 different colors (I also have it in bright green, purple, and black!) I’m always impressed with Amazon’s swimsuits so I’ll definitely be ordering some more colors of this.

DETAILS: TRUE & CO BRA (ON SALE 30% OFF – WEARING SIZE MEDIUM)

I live in these True & Co bras…they are so comfy! For prime day they are giving 30% off -such a good time to stock up on these essentials. This bra comes in 11 different colors! They are my most comfortable, everyday bra.

ORANGE TIE-DYE SET (ON SALE UNDER $25 – WEARING SIZE SMALL)

This is one of my top selling pieces from earlier this year! Such a great tie-dye set – both together or as separates. On sale under $25!

LED ZEPPELIN GRAPHIC TEE (ON SALE 30% OFF)

Cody and I are all about the unisex pieces we can share (or maybe I’m just all about stealing pieces from his closet haha) but I’ve been on a major unisex kick lately! I ordered this tee in an XXL for a super oversized fit for both me and Cody. Love the colors on this graphic tee!

DETAILS: CAT EYE SUNNIES (ON SALE FOR $14 FROM 6/21 4:20-10:20pm)

These Feisedy cat eye sunnies are on sale for $14 and come in 9 different colors. I went with the classic black and love the retro oversized look of them.

UNISEX SLIPPERS (ON SALE 22% OFF)

These viral sandals are also included in Prime Day! Under $20 right now – comes in lots of colors and a great option for him & her! Cody and I both have a pair and love them. So comfortable!

ELEMIS PRO-COLLAGEN MARINE CREAM (35% OFF)

ELEMIS PRO-COLLAGEN CLEANSING BALM (35% OFF)

ELEMIS DYNAMIC RESURFACING FACIAL PADS (35% OFF)

These three best-sellers from one of my favorite skincare brands is also on sale! I use this Pro-Collagen Cleansing Balm every day – you can use it to remove makeup, cleanse, as a moisturizing mask, or mix with an exfoliator for a nice exfoliating mask. It’s a cult-beauty fave for a reason! They are all 35% off today.

PEBBLE ICE MACHINE ($100 OFF)

We just got out first pebble ice machine for the office space reno we are working on and I can’t wait to get it set up! I’ve heard it’s a game changer – and it’s $100 of right now with Prime Day!

CAR SEAT (ALMOST $100 OFF)

I got this car seat for Ollie on a whim – it had such high reviews and was an amazing price point. And honestly we have loved it! It’s a 3 in 1 car seat that transitions with them as they grow. It’s almost $100 off right now and a total steal for such a good car seat!

DETAILS: FLORAL SHIRT (ON SALE FOR $17.50 – WEARING A SIZE LARGE)

Cody recently wore this floral shirt to Florida and I got so many questions about it! It’s sold out now in this print (at least temporarily) but this is a great brand for men’s button ups. Love all the prints! I just ordered a couple different prints because Cody liked the fit so much. I think I’ll even borrow it and wear it oversized with some shorts or as a swim coverup.

What are you Amazon Prime Day sale favorites? Let me know in the comments below!

xx, Christine

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DETAILS: MENTAL HEALTH CLUB SWEATSHIRT (WEARING SIZE L) | TIE DYE TEE (UNDER $50 – WEARING SIZE S) | RIBBED BIKER SHORTS (UNDER $50) | SNEAKERS | YELLOW CLOUD BAG (UNDER $100) | OLLIE’S TRIKE

And we’re off!! The beach has been calling our name! Travel style always means comfy style – I bought this cute tie-dye tee but always freeze on the plane so it’s the sweatshirt travel style life for me haha. Also loooove these APL sneakers! It’s my second  pair, but first one in this style. I know I’m late to the game but I am obsessed with these ones. So comfortable and love the speckled detail on the sole! I’ve had these biker shorts for a year now and they are hands down my favorite – you guys are probably sick of seeing them 🙈 but the ribbing is so soft and comfortable – seriously the best and under $100! Also using this yellow bag again – I think I found my new go-to travel bag. It’s huuuuge and fits pretty much everything you could possibly need for the flight. (It’s also a really comfortable plush material and really comfortable to carry around the airport.)

A lot of recents DM’s from you guys have been about a few Ollie/travel-related things so I thought it would be a good to answer in a post with some of the common ?’s and some of my tips.

Most genius invention ever. It’s a mix between a trike and a stroller and perfect for toddlers, both while traveling or at home running errands, going on walks, etc. It folds up so you can fit it in a backpack it comes with. We didn’t have anything like this when Beckam. It’s a must! (Also make a great gift since it’s a bit of a splurge, but it’s worth every penny.) If your baby is younger the Doona stroller that converts from a stroller to a carseat was a FAVE of ours too. We loved both Doona products.

Almost all airlines will let you take an infant (under 2) without making you purchase a separate ticket for them. The only catch is no ticket = no seat so they have to sit on your lap for the duration of the flight. After Ollie turned one he stopped falling asleep in my arms, so I usually decide whether I get him a seat or not depending on how long the flight is. For flights under 2 hours I’ll usually just have him sit on my lap and not spring for another ticket. For flights over 2 hours, I’ll get Ollie his own ticket so I can bring his car seat so he’ll be able to take a nap during the flight.

Which brings me to this point – bringing a car seat on the plane. I was surprised at how many DMs/comments I got that some of you didn’t know you could bring a car seat on the plane. A lot of people will check or gate-check their car seats but you 100% can take them on the plane. It makes naps sooo much easier when traveling – especially with long flights.

This is a random one, but so many flights don’t have milk on the plane anymore. So don’t forget to bring milk on longer flights.

Ollie is still so intrigued with snacks, I always bring lots of snack options over toys. Especially when your landing and taking off, something they can suck on or chew helps their ears pop.

Okay a lot of times were late 😂 But even when we aren’t I never board first. It’s more time your child has to sit in their seat. It definitely takes a second to get settled with kids but if your traveling with someone maybe have one person go on first and get seat set up and put stuff away while the other tries to get as much energy out of your little one as you can.

I think one of the biggest things, especially with long flights is managing expectations. Your child might cry and that’s ok. But kids pick up on our stress so if your freaking out it will only stress them out more. 90% of the time people are super understanding and you’re probably more worried about it then they are. I always have an emergency treat in case all else fails, but I try to save it as a last resort. For Ollie it’s suckers or mints 🙂

Hope this helps a little! I know some people ask if I’m glad we travel with the kids and the answer is 100%. Some of my favorite memories ever are on trips. We’ve had bad flights, but once you get to your spot and get to make the memories you will quickly forget and enjoy the family time!

Linking to more of my travel favorites below!

XX, Christine

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We’re headed to Florida tomorrow! The beach is always our first choice for any vacation, so I’m looking forward to soaking up every second of sun and time together.  I love buying some new swimsuits or accessories for our trips but I feel like I hit the jackpot on Amazon beach finds – almost everything was under $50. 🙌🏼  Sharing some of my favorites from my try-on haul that I’m packing for our trip below.

DETAILS: BROWN TWO-PIECE (UNDER $25 – WEARING SIZE M) | SUN HAT (UNDER $100) | WHITE LINEN BUTTON DOWN (UNDER $50 – WEARING SIZE L) | BEADED NECKLACE (UNDER $15) | GOLD RING (UNDER $50) | COLORED RINGS (UNDER $15)

I love this brown two piece from Amazon for a neutral beach-ready look. I ordered it in the blue too and loved it so much I had to get it in this pretty brown. It’s super flattering and looks 10x more expensive than it is. I’ve been loving the pretty linen button-down look as an easy coverup and found this one in multiple colors – it’s a super easy piece you can just throw on for the day as a beach cover up or with denim cut-offs for a day out. For accessories I’m obsessed with this hat! I don’t have anything in this color tone and the cord detail is so good. Also found this one that is under $25. Hats are a must for any beach getaway! also love these colorful rings and beaded chokers to bring in more color.

DETAILS:  CREAM TWO-PIECE (UNDER $25 – WEARING SIZE MEDIUM) | FLORAL HANDBAG (UNDER $20) | BEADED NECKLACE (UNDER $15) | GOLD RING (UNDER $50) | COLORED RINGS (UNDER $15)

This multi-color cream two-piece is under $25 and such a good fit! It’s super comfortable and good coverage so it’s functional too (a must with kids!) Love the color palette too. Also got this black & white floral bag – it’s one of those things Tiktok made me buy and I was still a little skeptical until I got it in person and now I’m obsessed. It’s a fun statement accessory and perfect to take down to the pool or beach if you’re packing light.

DETAILS: SUN HAT | CROP TOP (UNDER $20 – WEARING SIZE MEDIUM) | SHORTS (UNDER $25 – WEARING SIZE MEDIUM) | GOLD RING (UNDER $50) | SUNNIES (UNDER $15) | SANDALS (UNDER $30 – WEARING SIZE MEDIUM – USUALLY SIZE 9)

These shorts are such a steal! They are under $25 and are a super lightweight material that’s perfect for surviving the summer heat. I got them in a size S and M and they both fit but I liked the looser fit of the medium. So I would size up if you’re in between sizes. I paired them with this knit tank which is another one of my favorite finds. It’s super versatile and so easy to style (also under $20!).

DETAILS: BLACK DRESS (UNDER $25 – WEARING SIZE S) | RIBBED CLUTCH (UNDER $40) | GOLD RING (UNDER $50) | SANDALS (UNDER $30 – WEARING SIZE MEDIUM – USUALLY 8)

This black dress is probably the biggest silhouette of the season. So sleek and sophisticated but the flirty cut-outs make it perfect for summer. It’s under $25 and comes in multiple colors – love this look for a night out or romantic dinner on the beach! So good with this brown ribbed clutch and gold-chain sandals.

DETAILS: BLACK SET (UNDER $40 – WEARING SIZE S ) | GOLD RING (UNDER $50) | SUNNIES (UNDER $15) | SANDALS (UNDER $30 – MEDIUM – USUALLY SIZE 8)

I shared this black set the other day and it’s selling fast. It it’s the easiest summer outfit but also super versatile since you can mix and match with other pieces. Love the ruffled detail on the top and the slit on the pants makes it feel like such a statement piece. Ordered in both blue and white. Huge steal under $40 for the set!

DETAILS: SUN HAT | CROP TOP (UNDER $20 – WEARING SIZE MEDIUM) | BLACK PANTS (UNDER $40 – WEARING SIZE S) | GOLD RING (UNDER $50) | SANDALS (UNDER $30-MEDIUM) | COLORED RINGS (UNDER $12) | LEATHER CLUTCH (UNDER $40)

Here’s an example of mixing and matching the bottoms from this set. One of the reasons I love neutrals so much is you can combine them for endless outfits – a must when you’re traveling! Love the lightweight trousers with this pretty knit crop – just add a sun dat to keep it feeling summery for an easy daytime look.

Sharing a few more of my favorite neutral beach-finds below!

DETAILS: BROWN TWO-PIECE (UNDER $25) | SUN HAT | CROP TOP (UNDER $20) | SHORTS (UNDER $25) | LEATHER CLUTCH | SANDALS (UNDER $30) | BLACK DRESS (UNDER $25) | WHITE SHIRTDRESS (UNDER $35) | CREAM TWO-PIECE (UNDER $25) | BLACK SET (UNDER $40) | STRAW BAG (UNDER $30) | TANNING DROPS | SUNSCREEN

Ok moving on to my colorful beach finds!

DETAILS: TIE-DYE BIKINI (UNDER $25 – WEARING SIZE M) | COLORED RINGS (UNDER $15) | BEADED NECKLACE (UNDER $15) | GOLD RING (UNDER $50)

Love the strap detail on this tie-dye bikini! I’m wearing it in a medium – it definitely runs a little small so if you are in between sizes I would recommend sizing up. (I could’ve even sized up to a large in the top.) It’s pretty cheeky as far as swimsuit bottoms go but the print is so good! Such a fun suit for summer.

DETAILS:  MULTI-COLOR STRAPPY BIKINI (UNDER $30 – WEARING SIZE M) | SUNNIES (UNDER $15) | SANDALS (UNDER $30-MEDIUM) | COLORED RINGS (UNDER $12)|  GOLD RING (UNDER $50) | BEADED NECKLACE (UNDER $15)

Another colorful bikini I couldn’t resist. This one comes with this pretty scarf to wrap as a bottom. It’s a great cover up and I love all the bold colors together! Ordered it in a few different colors and similar set with longer wrap skirts, but this one was by far my fave. Obsessed!

DETAILS:  GREEN ROMPER (UNDER $35) | SUNNIES (UNDER $15) | COLORED RINGS (UNDER $15)|  GOLD RING (UNDER $50) | BEADED NECKLACE (UNDER $15)

Any romper this cute for under $50 is a huge win in my book. Love the full silhouette so it reads like a dress but the shorts make it functional enough to be able to wear out and about without having to worry about keeping things covered.

DETAILS: ORANGE RIBBED SET (UNDER $30) | WHITE LINEN BUTTON UP (UNDER $35 – WEARING SIZE L) | SUNNIES (UNDER $15) | COLORED RINGS (UNDER $12)|  GOLD RING (UNDER $50) | BEADED NECKLACE (UNDER $13) | RIBBED CLUTCH (UNDER $40)

I saw someone where an oversized linen button up over a biker shorts set and I was instantly in love! The linen button up is the perfect way to dress up your biker shorts set to make it a little more put together and sophisticated. And how good is this shade of orange!! So pretty! It comes in 7 colors. Also love it with this cute ribbed clutch to take it from gym ready to brunch ready.

Linking more of my favorite colorful beach finds below!

DETAILS:  MULTI-COLOR STRAPPY BIKINI (UNDER $26) | TIE-DYE BIKINI (UNDER $25) | GREEN ROMPER (UNDER $35) | MULTI-COLOR BIKINI TOP/SKIRT (UNDER $30) | ORANGE RIBBED SET (UNDER $30) | WHITE SHIRTDRESS (UNDER $35) | COLORED RINGS (UNDER $12)| BEADED NECKLACE (UNDER $13)

Are you more into classic neutrals or bold colors for your beach vibe?

XX, Christine

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Summer beauty is all about the easy, fresh-faced 2 minute beauty routines. Honestly I feel like that’s been my routine year-round lately haha but with a little bit of that summer glow, it makes anybody’s beauty routine that much simpler. I just discovered a few products that double as skincare and makeup that are the all-stars of summer beauty so I wanted to share my quick 3 minute glow routine!

STEP 1. HYDRATE (MOISTURE CREAM) – 15% OFF WITH CODE: CHRISTINEANDREW

The first step in any successful beauty look is moisture! This moisturizer is super light-weight and non-greasy but still is really hydrating and leaves my skin feeling so soft. The best part is its also skincare, so it also smooths fine lines and wrinkles over time the more you use it. It’s an essential step in both your morning and nighttime skin routine. (Don’t forget to follow with your favorite SPF in the am!)

2. PRIME – FILTER PRIMER – 15% OFF WITH CODE: CHRISTINEANDREW

My second step is this filter primer – technically it’s a primer so it leaves the prettiest finish but you can also get it in a pretty tint so it doubles as makeup to give you a gorgeous, glowy finish. Once you apply and start to blend, it matches your unique skin-tone perfectly! It comes in multiple tints (I’m wearing the shade sunrise). And even better is that it’s actually good for your skin and won’t clog your pores like other primers. I’m obsessed obsessed obsessed. I’ve gotten tons of my friends hooked already!

3. HIGHLIGHT- ROSE GLOW BALM STICK – 15% OFF WITH CODE: CHRISTINEANDREW

Last and final step to achieve this natural dewy look is this rose glow balm stick. It’s actually an eye balm (best way to fake a good night’s sleep when you need it the most!) but it has the prettiest consistency so I also apply the balm where I would typically conceal and highlight – my forehead, tip of my nose, above my upper lip, and a little on my chin. You can also reapply your glow throughout the day with the stick applicator – it’s the perfect pick-me-up! This one is a best-seller and I absolutely love it.

DETAILS: MOISTURE CREAM | TULA FILTER PRIMER | TULA ROSE GLOW BALM STICK

Usually I’ll just finish with some brow-gel and curling my lashes and I’m good to go. Linking more of my favorite summer beauty products below!

XX, Christine

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Obsessed with this dress! The scrunched sleeve detail is such a pretty detail but also makes it easy to transition the dress for spring and summer if you want shorter/longer sleeves and to give it more of a full, voluminous sleeve.

DETAILS: WHITE DRESS (WEARING SIZE XS) | DENIM SHORTS | EMBELLISHED SANDALS (UNDER $100) | BLACK WOVEN BAG (UNDER $50) | GOLD WATCH | SUNGLASSES (UNDER $10) | MAMA NECKLACE (UNDER $100) | BEADED BRACELET (UNDER $20) | OLLIE’S TRIKE

Yesterday was just one of those days where even the simplest moments feel like heaven. Chalk it up to the kids being out of school or feeling like summer is finally here – either way I had such a fun time just hanging out at the mall with Beckam and Ollie! We’re heading out of town later this week and I needed to grab a few things for our trip, so it turned into a whole evening. We ran through the fountains and Beckam collected blank gift cards. It was so fun just to be able to walk around and enjoy shopping and the boys being silly. Beckam is so much fun to hang out with right now – I’m loving this age so much! He’s so silly and makes me laugh all the time. Love these moments together. XX

I always get so many questions on Ollie’s trike. It’s a trike meets stroller and the best thing ever! Cannot recommend it enough!

Ollie is as obsessed with the strawberry lemonade as his mom. If you haven’t tried the Nordstrom strawberry lemonade, it’s sooo good!

Beckam told me last night that he wants to be a dad when he grows up – so he wanted to push Ollie. ❤️❤️❤️

Almost didn’t see him there. 😉

Love this bag! It’s a great size and the zipper makes it perfect for a big carryall bag (especially for moms!) Under $50 – also ordered in tan!

It was so cute – he wanted to get a black backwards hat so he could match his dad on our trip. It’s crazy because he looks so much like his dad here too. He’s seriously his dad’s little twin.

Never ceases to make me laugh. Love this kid. ❤️❤️

DETAILS: CROCS

Guysssss who else is on the Croc train? I love them on Ollie and somehow ended up trying them on at Nordstrom and kind of love them. Tried them on in this pretty blush, lilac, and pink/orange color and they are all so pretty! I went home with two colors. (Can you guess which?)

Wanted to share a closer look at this dress in better lighting – it has the prettiest texture on the material and love the silhouette. Would also make a great cover up!

Linking a few more of my recent summer Nordstrom finds below!

XX, Christine

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I’m so excited to start this series! Questions about being a stepmom/bonus mom and our blended family are always my most asked questions. So I wanted to start a series about blended families, being a bonus mom, and growing up with divorced parents.

My parents divorced when I was little, 4 or 5. I primarily lived with my dad (in Washington state) and then would go spend half the summer with my mom (in Virginia). My dad got remarried when I was 5 or 6, and my step mom became a big part of my life too. Very grateful for all of my parents, but I think going through a split family dynamic growing up helped me understand a few things as a step/bonus mom and brought some perspective to certain things I see my bonus kids go through now.

Before I start, I want to preface this by saying, no two situations are exactly the same, but being a parent (bonus mom or regular mom) is always easier when you have a community, friends, or family to rely on or talk to. I feel like you guys are all my besties so I hope this series can maybe help anyone navigating being a bonus mom, or dating someone with kids. And in case you don’t follow me on  instagram and are wondering where these questions below came from- I did a Q&A and had you submit all your blended fam/bonus mom questions. I compiled the most asked questions and will be breaking them into different posts (And it will also give you guys time to ask questions in comments below that I can include in my future posts.)

So here we go…

THE BEGINNING

Q. How long have you and Cody been together and where did you meet?

A. We’ve been married for 10 years this fall! We met selling alarm systems door to door in South Carolina and Texas. We both sold 🙂

Q. How many babies did you birth? Which ones are your step kids?

A. The oldest two, Mara and Wes are my bonus babies (Cody was married before and had Mara and Wes with his ex-wife). Beckam and Ollie I birthed, and are my biological children.

Q. Was it hard for you to date Cody initially because he had two babies?

A. I actually had a serious boyfriend in college who had kids. I knew I always wanted to have a big family and I had a great example of a stepmom/bonus mom growing up, so dating a guy with kids was never a big deal for me. I know this is not always the case, a lot of you have  messaged me saying it’s been a hard transition dating someone with kids, but the biggest piece of advice I can give you is give it time. Our situation wasn’t easy at first. The divorce was hard on a lot of people and things took time.  Eventually you’ll develop a structure, find what works for you and your family, and get into the swing of things. I would also say for the kids’ sake, unless you really see yourself with this person for a long time, I wouldn’t rush to meet the kids if you don’t see it being long term. 

Q. How do you handle emotions about his past/firsts? (Jealousy, resentment, sadness).

A. For the most part, I didn’t really think about knowing he had done things without me or experienced things first before me.  It wasn’t something I consciously thought about or dwelt on,  but there were a few random moments when it hit me…

Right after I had Beckam there was a moment I was like ‘Oh, he’s already done this’. He had gone through and experienced a lot of the first time parent things already.. I thought to myself I could be mad or jealous he wasn’t going through it the first time with me or I could look for the positive like ‘hey he will know what to do maybe in times I won’t’. This is a life lesson I’ve learned over the years in general, you always have a choice on your mindset to focus on positive or the negative. 

I do remember asking him when we were home one of the first couple days with Beckam, “Does it feel any different this time around?” I am always pretty open with how I feel. I wear my emotions on my sleeve. I think communication is even more important with blended families, because it’s really easy to let emotions/feelings bottle up inside and it super important to have a lot of communication to understand and support each other.

The other time I can really remember was when I wanted to go to Paris for the first time. Cody had gone with his ex-wife and didn’t love all the touristy things (he’s not big on museums or seeing all the sites) so when we first got married he wasn’t super anxious to go back and I hadn’t been to Europe in years, and didn’t want my first time being in a city I had been dyiiiing to go to to be thinking about him and his ex wife. I honestly don’t know why that event stood out to me, but it’s the one thing I didn’t want to repeat. Instead of going with Cody, I decided to take Beckam.

He was 6 months old and my friend Amber (you guys probably know her – Dae/Barefoot Blonde) and I took our babies with our friend Jaci and it was such an amazing trip! It’s honestly one of my favorite memories with Beckam to this day. And now we’ve been back to Paris as a family a couples times and I love it. It’s one of my favorite family spots. But for some reason that first time to a bucket list place I didn’t want to be thinking about what he did with his ex wife 😂 

I think there’s something about those ‘firsts’. Maybe we build them up in our head, but if there is something that is important to you, talk to your spouse or significant other. I was really up front with Cody about it and he understood. I mean I don’t think he totally understood my emotions behind it, but he supported us going and wanted me to go have fun. On that same note, and I want to emphasize this, you are entitled to all of your feelings. You’re entitled to feel jealousy at times, resentment, or sadness. But then how you handle it is on YOU. You have a decision to make: what are you going to do about it? You can just sit in your feelings and build bitterness, or you can acknowledge them and then try to grow and change. I know everyone will handle things differently – and it’s not to say I have never felt sad, jealous or hurt, but I hope it can bring some connection and encouragement to those of you going through the same thing. 

Q. Tips for dating someone with 2 kids with someone else?

A. I think my biggest advice would be to put the kids’ wellbeing first and foremost. That might not be what you’re expecting, but instead of thinking how the kids could affect you or your relationship, think about how you could be affecting the kids. My #1 piece of advice: wait to meet the kids. Don’t rush things and give it a little time, just out of respect for the kids. Especially if you don’t see yourself getting really serious with their parent – it’s not fair to them to have a new person in and out of their lives that doesn’t intend to be in it long-term. Put yourself in their shoes. 

Q: How did Cody introduce you to the kids? About to go through this & I look up to your family. 

A. This can vary so much depending on your situation, the kids ages, etc. I think meeting somewhere that’s neutral territory is a great idea. Somewhere outside your space and outside their space so everyone feels comfortable. Another idea is to do some sort of activity you can do together so you all have time to warm up and conversation can flow easier and more natural. It’s funny I had forgotten about this until you guys asked, but I met Cody and the kids at the McDonald’s Play Place – and we got ice cream. 🥰

Q. How soon did you meet the kids when you and Cody were dating? Did they accept you at first?

A. I met Mara and Wes 6 months after Cody and I started dating. They were honestly so young I feel like they warmed up super easy, and I love kids, and babysat and nannied a lot so I feel like overall I’m good with kids which made it easier. I’ve known Mara and Wes since they were toddlers so I’ve been lucky that they’ve mostly grown up with me in their life. 

Q. How did your family accept that Cody had kids?

A. I touched on this earlier, but I was pretty serious with the guy I dated before who had kids, so I don’t think this was ever an issue really for my parents. I never straight out asked them though… I think their main concern was that if I married someone with kids, he was a good dad. It’s funny, I think seeing guys as a dad helps you identify the good ones even faster. 

Q. What did you do for your bonus children when you guys got married?

A. Mara was our flower girl and Wes was our ring bearer. I honestly can’t remember if I got them a specific gift or memento for the wedding, but I’ve seen the cutest ideas and gestures online after we got married – there are so many creative and thoughtful things you can do to make them feel special and loved! I think ages play into this on what kind of gift or sentiment to do 🙂

BALANCING BONUS & BIO

Q. Do you ever feel like your own kids get put second to your bonus kids? Struggle bus here.

A. Hmm this was an interesting question… I think having limited time with my bonus kids makes me want to make sure we are making the most of that time, so I feel like Cody and I are more intentional and mindful of that time. With Beckam and Ollie, its more routine if that makes sense, but the days we have Mara and Wes we try to make sure we are wrapping up work right at 5 or earlier so we can get more quality time together, planning something fun for the weekends, etc. So it’s not that we treat Ollie and Beckam different, but we do treat the time we have with Mara and Wes differently, if that makes sense…. 

The other time it feels like we do things differently is holidays, and it’s not that I feel like our kids get put ‘second’, it’s that we have to make some adjustments for schedules and splitting times on holidays. So that becomes the priority vs how an unblended family might celebrate. For example, we always split Christmas with Mara and Wes’ mom, so some years Beckam has to wait until the afternoon to open presents or on Easter we do the Easter egg hunt later after we get them. So not getting put second, just adjusting some traditions because we would rather have Mara and Wes with us to celebrate together as a family.

Q. How long were you a bonus mom before having Beckam and Ollie?

A. 3ish years I think… honestly I have the worst memory with dates, Cody is so much better at that than me 🙂

Q. How did you feel the change was when you had B?

A. There were two big changes for me – #1) Before I had Beckam, Mother’s Day sucked. Of course Mara and Wes are going to spend Mother’s Day with their mom, and I would never want or expect them to be with me instead of their mom on that day. But as a bonus mom you spend a lot of time loving and nurturing and building a bond with your bonus babies, so selfishly I wanted to celebrate with them too. I was/am so grateful for them and for the love they have brought into my life, so it was hard not getting to be with them on that day. Cody was always thoughtful and did something before Mother’s Day with all of us to celebrate being a bonus mom, but it’s still a reminder on the day of when so many people were celebrating that you just wish you could hug your bonus babies. Once I had Beckam and Ollie, Mother’s Day changed for me and took some of that away. I still miss seeing Mara and Wes so much on that day, but it’s nice I get to be with the other kids.

 #2) Having Beckam and Ollie brought so much perspective to how it might feel on the other side of the equation, things that until you have kids of your own probably won’t make sense. Like in some ways I wonder if I was too involved before… some of this is hard to put into words, but it brought perspective to not feeling like I had to be a part of as many decisions with Mara and Wes, and to give their mom space like at school functions. Example… before I had Beckam and Ollie I signed up to help in Mara and Wes’ classes and volunteered for things, and yes I’m so glad I did that, but I also realized maybe that’s something their mom just wants to do…as I’m writing this I realize I probably should have just asked her instead of assuming either way 😂 . I also felt like it brought perspective to her side of splitting time… Splitting time sucks for both parents 100%, but before I had my own kids, I always sided with Cody, and then once I had Beckam and Ollie I imagined having to share so much time with Beckam and Ollie with another woman/family, not seeing every milestone, splitting holidays, all of that sucks… of course you want your kids to be loved by as many people as possible, but it made me understand her point of view a little more in some ways, that until you have your own kids you don’t really understand as a bonus mom. 

Q. How did you guys decide on “ours” babies. My bf is 10 years older and 3 kids – I’m worries he’s done. LOL

A. This is a conversation I would FOR SURE have before you get married. I thought Cody and I did but he says he doesn’t remember 😂. He was always on board for us to have one together, but I always wanted at least 2 because I was an only child and always wished I had a sibling. Since we don’t have Mara and Wes full time I didn’t want one of our kids to be by themselves when Mara and Wes are gone, so I always wanted at least 2. Cody didn’t realize that so he thought he was done after Beckam and it took me yearsssss to convince him on another. Obviously he’s glad we did now that we have Ollie, but it’s still an important conversation to have prior to make sure you’re on the same page.

Wes and Mara with baby B ❤️

Q. How did you talk to the kids about having another baby (meaning before Beckam was born?)

A. Honestly it’s been so long ago that I don’t remember how we told the kids, but I remember surprising everyone in our family somehow. They were really excited – both with Beckam and Ollie.

Q. I had a really awful step-mom experience – did you ever worry about treating the kids different?

A. I’m so sorry – I feel like I get messages like this A LOT  and it makes me so sad.  I pray everyday my bonus kids feel loved when they are with us and know how much they mean to me. I’m sure I’ve done things wrong, but I think as a parent we always want to strive to be better, so I hope they always know how loved they are, not just them but all our kids.

That wraps up part one! Some of the upcoming posts will talk about schedules, things I’ve learned being a bonus moms, discipline/parenting my kids vs. bonus kids, how involved I am with ex-wife, etc… if you have new questions or questions about anything above drop in the comments below.

XX, Christine

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